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No Fems, No Fats, No Asians
Posted on 13-06-2011
This is what I read on about 80% of online profiles.
No Fems, No Fats, No Asians.
In theory it sounds like something that should be on a fucking t-shirt.
We all enjoy different flavors of the rainbow, and surely there are far nicer ways of expressing your sexual attractions, but No Fems, No Fats, No Asians seems to be the common practice for a good number of gay men.
No Fems – this indicates that you aren’t into ‘feminine’ or overly camp guys. Or ‘screaming queens’ as some guys write.
No Fats – this usually means you’re looking for a guy with a chiseled six-pack with a penis the size of a Pringles can. What I love the best are guys who mention their body type as “Athletic” or “Defined”, and then of course are nothing like that in real life. FYI guys, sucking in your beer belly while you snap your profile photo does not tag you as “Defined”.
No Asians – this irritates the hell out of me. Reality check – you’re in a region that has a pretty strong Asian population, so don’t act all hot and bothered if an Asian guy messages you. Also writing “NO ASIANS INDIANS PLZ NO OFFENSE” is just plain fucking insulting.
So pull your finger out of your ass and consider rewording your profile a bit.
Honestly why do you waste your time with such people?
Instead you can explore the world, build a new project or write a book.
Even in Indian this is the same story nothing different.
You mind need to prioritize whats needed in life and whats not!
Seriously after ten years in the Indian g dating world I didn’t find many who were kind or wants to settle down or not shallow.
In fact my first shock about my appearance came with a South Indian guy who said I am no good to look at.
I decided that the g world is never going to accept me and I only reply to messages who like me I never bother sending messages to strangers because i know its going to be sad.
And moreover many guys now have lot of infections and so I don’t bother meeting anyone other than a date outside.
Therefore as per my experience it’s far better to love yourself and forget these good for nothing shallow guys who will never become less shallow until they reach 40 or 60 years .
Even on youtube several guys want only certain kind of guys.
So buddy please forget the g world it is a harsh place of racism.
Just build your dreams and see how you fly and smile.
Forget all this meetings of shallow guys and go for guys who genuinely love you.
I know many guys who genuinely love me!